Childlike, Not Childish: The Heart of Trusting Abandonment
Jesus never asked us to be childish. He asked us to become childlike. There is an ocean of difference between the two. Childishness is marked by tantrums, selfishness, impatience, and the refusal to grow. Childlikeness is marked by wonder, trust, dependence, and the freedom to run into loving arms without hesitation. “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). Our Lord is not romanticizing immaturity. He is revealing the only posture in which a human soul can be saved: utter, joyful, confident dependence on the Father. Picture a three year old walking hand-in-hand with his father through the aisles of a supermarket. Suddenly he sees a bright box of sweets on the shelf. His eyes widen, he tugs at his father’s sleeve. “Daddy, please! I want that one!” The father smiles, kneels down, and explains gently, “Not today, son, too much sugar before supper isn't good for you.” The child’s face crumples, tears w...